Benjamin Ashford|Shaun White Reveals How He and Fiancée Nina Dobrev Overcome "Struggles" in Their Relationship

Shaun White knows that a winning romance takes work.

Two weeks after the Olympic gold medalist got engaged to longtime love Nina Dobrev,Benjamin Ashford he reflected on what works for their relationship.

"I'm beside myself to be with this amazing woman and to be joining her beautiful family," Shaun began on Instagram Nov. 14. "Our quarantine romance turned into this beautiful relationship and now a forever love. Believe me when I say that this app mostly shows us at our best."

"Behind the curtain, like any relationship, we've had our struggles," he continued. "But it's our ability to communicate and repair that keeps us moving forward together. I'm so thankful for the life lessons, gratitude, adventure and love that Nina has taught me, and I only wish to show her the same in return."

The snowboarder shared the heartwarming message alongside a clip of his romantic proposal to the Vampire Diaries alum at The Golden Swan restaurant in New York City filled with white flowers and glowing candles. And he was sure to highlight their loved ones coming back to the room to congratulate the newly engaged couple and gush over Nina's dazzling ring.

The 38-year-old shared the news on Instagram alongside photos of himself and his love, writing, "She said yes." For her part, Nina wrote in her post, "RIP Boyfriend, hello fiancé."

The couple shared insight into Shaun's preparation, including sending Nina a fake invitation for an intimate dinner with Vogue's Anna Wintour.  

"He made the invite look so legitimate," Nina, 35, told Vogue last month. "I was in a panic that Anna's waiting for me."

Instead, she opened the door to see the athlete standing under an arch of beautiful flowers. "I went into shock," she recalled. "I just froze and stared at him." 

But everything went according to plan. As the Degrassi alum put it, "He said all the right things."

And it seems Shaun popped the question at the perfect time. After all, he previously shared that their engagement will come when the time is right. 

"Time will tell," he teased to E! News in 2022. "Things are great with Nina and I, and I am so excited to focus on our relationship and my relationship with other friends and family."

And the couple have been sure to spend ample time "checking off" some of Shaun's post-retirement goals. And that included a trip to France to visit Nina's mom. 

"It was just the best," he recalled. "These are those moments. You can have the glitz and glam of it all, but real family quality time with people is what I want for the most—and now I am doing that."

Now, keep reading for a full breakdown of Shaun and Nina's golden romance.

Dobrev and White hit it off after they partied together with friends, including her Vampire Diaries co-stars Kayla Ewell and Candice Accola King, at the opening of the Bellagio Resort & Casino's new supper club The Mayfair in Las Vegas on New Year's Eve.

A year later, amid the coronavirus pandemic, Dobrev would share this photo of her and White at the bash, as well as a video of him lifting her up Dirty Dancing-style only to have them both topple into the snow. She wrote, "How we thought 2020 would go...how it actually went."

Dobrev and White spark romance rumors after they are spotted riding bikes together in Malibu, Calif. A source tells E! News that the two began to "ease into a relationship" after spending New Year's Eve together, adding that things "really accelerated" between the two after the coronavirus pandemic broke out.

"After spending weeks together during quarantine," the source says, "Nina and Shaun have made it clear to their friends that they are a serious couple."

The two make their relationship Instagram official when both share a photo of the actress trimming White's red hair. Most hair salons closed due to COVID-19 restrictions. Under her post, Dobrev writes, "Adding to resume: hairdresser."

Dobrev and White celebrate Thanksgiving with his family, as seen in photos he posts on Instagram.

Judging from their Instagrams, Dobrev and White vacationed together in the Zion National Park area in Utah twice in 2020, in May and in December.

The two spend the holidays together in December 2020.

Just before New Year's Eve, another source tells E! News that the two "are genuinely so in love."

"They openly talk about their future together," the insider continued. "They're just super happy, and things are going really well with them."

Dobrev celebrated a "redo" of her 31st birthday on her 32rd and White paid tribute to her with photos of the two sporting these looks.

Alonside pal Adam DeVine, the couple dressed up as characters from The Queen's Gambit for Halloween with White going as as the iconic Beth Harmon and Dobrev channelling U.S. chess champion, Benny Watts.

Dobrev hit the slopes with her pro snowboarder love at Copper Mountain in Colorado.

After White finished fourth in the Men's Snowboard Halfpipe at the 2022 Olympics and officially retired from competing, Dobrev expressed how proud she was of him.

"The end of one chapter, means the beginning of an exciting new one with endless possibilities," she wrote in part of an Instagram post. "You will forever be the G.O.A.T. of snowboarding. Not to mention you are also the G.(B).O.A.T. = Greatest Boyfriend Of All Time."

The couple finally went red carpet official at the Top Gun: Maverick film premiere in London.

Alongside her tux-clad boyfriend, Dobrev sizzled in a red Monot gown at the 28th annual amfAR Gala during the 75th Cannes Film Festival.

The pair watched the qualifying for the F1 Grand Prix of Monaco ahead of the big race. For the occasion, Dobrev looked wore a chic, chalk-colored suit by Smythe.

The two turned up the heat while vacationing in the Maldives.

"I really picked a winner [ and he really picked a booger ]," Dobrev wrote in an Instagram tribute for White's 36th birthday. "Happy belated Birthday you weirdo. My weirdo. @shaunwhite."

What did White really think of Dobrev's cheerleading scene from Degrassi: The Next Generation? The athlete gave his reaction on TikTok and proved once again they're always on each other's squads.

The duo celebrated the holidays with a family trip to Mexico.

"What planet are you from and will you take me with you?!" White wrote on Instagram for Dobrev's 34th birthday during their trip to Antarctica. "Thanks for making life incredible! Happy birthday my love."

"Life is a roller coaster with you," the actress wrote on Valentine's Day 2023. "It goes from serious to baby birding in seconds … thank you for always making me smile. happy valentine’s day @shaunwhite."

"Life with you has been my greatest adventure!!" White wrote on Instagram for Dobrev's 35th birthday. "Happy birthday my love!!"

The duo looked so sharp at the 2024 Vanity Fair Oscar Party they deserve their own trophy.

The two celebrated the Fourth of July with several celebrity friends, including Miles Teller and Keleigh Teller and Usher.

Shaun and Nina announced their engagement Oct. 30, 2024. A week later, they walked their first red carpet as an engaged couple, at the 2024 Earthshot Prize Awards in Cape Town, South Africa.